James: 10 months (discipline!)

I feel like this month flew by!  James is growing and changing and learning so quickly these days, it blows me away.

Language

He is doing several signs to communicate with me, and that is so fun.  I love to watch him sitting and practicing with his hands, trying to move his hands and fingers so intently.  Then, he will look up at me and do the sign, and he is so proud of himself.  So stinking cute.  He regularly uses the signs for more, all done, milk (although this seems to be more general - like hungry or thirsty), sometimes please.  We're working on please, thank you and water.  He waves hello, goodbye and night night, claps for "yay" and pat-a-cake, and points at anything that he wants or thinks is interesting (including strangers in the store).

He also verbally says a few words!  His first word happened this month: "dad!"  He actually says "da," but it is definitely what he calls Stuart (and not anything else).  It first happened a few weeks ago.  I was showing him pictures of Stuart while he was gone at work, and I asked James, "Who is this?" And he answered, "Da!"  It is really sweet.

About a week ago, he started saying "ma" or "mama," associated mostly with when I walk out of a room, or I'm in another room and he wants me to come to him.  So, for "dad," it's an exciting declaration of affection, and for "mama," it's a whine of needing something.  Typical!

Also this past week, a few times instead of signing "milk," he actually says something that sounds like "milk," maybe "mik" or just "mi."

Mobility

He is moving all around, still "swimming" across the floor mostly, but he has been using his head less (he used to use it for leverage against the floor - pretty silly).  Now it's more like an exaggerated army crawl.  He also pulls up onto his knees, but only at the dishwasher.  He doesn't pull up to stand, but if I stand him next to something, he'll grab and hold on (sometimes with only one hand) and can stand for a minute or two.  I randomly started singing "Stand up, Stand up for Jesus" (the old hymn) when we first did standing practice, so now it's stuck as his standing song.



Discipline!

He has started having interest in a few things around the house that he is not allowed to play with, particularly any and all power cords (i.e. lamp cord, power cord to the computer, phone charger, etc.) and the water filter that screws into the bottom of the fridge.  He wants to yank on the power cords and chew on them.  For obvious reasons, this is against the rules and one of the few times that we tell him "no" and redirect him.  Then there is the fridge filter...

I don't know why he loves it, but he does.  He has figured out how to unscrew it and pop it out, and if he's quick enough, he sucks on it before I get it away from him.  And that's just gross, so it's the other time that we consistently use the word "no."  I don't expect him to remember from day to day (or even hour to hour) that he is not supposed to play with the filter.  But when he starts heading that way across the kitchen floor, I always say "James, no" and he stops, looks at me, looks at the filter and pats his little hands on the floor as if he is contemplating his next move.  Sometimes he will turn away and play with something else.  I always praise him when he does this, saying "Thank you for obeying mama."  Other times, he moves forward toward the filter.  Again, I'll say "James, no," and we do this until he actually gets to the filter and touches it.  The first time he touches it, I swoop him up and look him in the eyes and say "No, you have to obey mama," and redirect him to play with something else.  If he heads back toward the filter, he never pauses to contemplate, only dashes toward it as I continue saying "James, no."  When he touches it the second time, I swoop him up, pop his little hand and again say "No, you have to obey mama."  Sometimes he cries, but not because he is hurt, more like he is sad because I'm unhappy with him.  I then snuggle him and tell him I love him, then redirect him to play with something else (Is this not just like our relationship with the Lord??).  Usually he does not go back to the filter after that (at least for a little while...).



Teeth & Food

James has six teeth (4 on top, 2 on bottom), with a few buds but nothing imminent to pop through.  He likes to use them to crunch his food.  Speaking of food, he's tried several new things recently:
pumpkin
plain yogurt
oranges
ground beef
chicken
spinach
cumin

He's also drinking water from a sippy cup.  We tried the traditional cup with a little spout, and he mostly just chewed on it.  We tried it with and without the valve (so that maybe he could see that if he just sucked on it right, he would get water), but he doesn't consistently drink out of it.  I tried a cup with a straw recently, and he is much better at that.  I'm hoping to invest in a good one soon that doesn't leak (hard to find, I hear, because the straws tend to leak more readily).



Daily routine at 10 months

6:30-7am wake (a bit earlier recently - some mornings even as early as 5am... could be due to some trips we've been on recently)

7am bottle (8 oz organic low lactose dairy formula), followed by breakfast (oats, fruit, O's)  no egg!

Playtime until 1st nap: reading books, sitting outside, playing with the tupperware in the kitchen (and/or the fridge filter as described above), blocks

8:30 or 9am goes down for 1st nap, usually sleeps 1-1.5 hours

9:30-10:30am wake from 1st nap and go for a jog/stroller ride or library storytime

11am 2nd bottle (6-8 oz)

12noon lunch (protein like beans, lentils or meat and a veggie and fruit)

1pm second nap, usually 1-2 hours

2:30-3pm wake from 2nd nap

3pm 3rd bottle (6-8 oz)

Our day really varies after 3pm:  Sometimes we stay home and just play around the house or go for a walk, and some days we'll go out for errands or see friends.

5-5:30pm dinner (another protein, often avocado if we have it, or some other veggie)

6:30pm head upstairs for bedtime routine

7pm lay down in crib for bedtime, usually he falls right asleep



Sleep routine

This has changed a little bit from what we started at 4 months when we did some sleep training.  Back then, he got a bath at bedtime every night, followed by an intense rub down with lotion and medicated ointment.  Since getting him off the soy formula, his eczema has much improved.  So now, our routine before naps and bedtime are pretty similar:

Diaper change (we always lay him down in a dry diaper, otherwise he tends to leak)
Read a book (or two) - we cannot skip this step, or else he will let us know!
Turn off the light and turn on the white noise
Snuggle/rock/sing for a minute or two
Lay him in the crib, walk out and close the door

At bedtime, he still gets lotion put on after his diaper change, and a bottle in the rocking chair (other bottles during the day are given downstairs on the couch typically).

This routine has worked awesome for us, and he definitely knows it means it's time to sleep!



Trips

We spent a long weekend in West Virginia after my Pappa Parsons had shoulder surgery, so James got to see everyone up there and spend some time with Aunt Katie before she moved across the country to Seattle (sad face!).

We spent another weekend at the beach with our loveliest friends, the Reagans and the Merricks.  Such a good time.

We also had one of our favorite family members from Arkansas come visit: Jenna!  Her trip was full of shopping and lounging and eating!  We also went to the NC Museum of Art (the above photo with the lilly pads was taken there).